Sunday, March 11, 2012

The Blinding Coincidence

When you try to apply the criteria to what you do, things are quite complicated. What you do is not always what you love to do, what you are good at is not always what you love to do, what you are good may be what you do but is not what you love to do, what you do even when it is what you love to do may not be what is approved, etc. etc. I can go on and on. But among all it seems that the situation when what you do is what you not only good at and also what you love to do, and is not strongly disapproved (let's say approved), then it is perfect. Well, it is not. Actually it complicates things even more because in this case, you can be confused by the reason of your choice and have the tendency to inject too much 'correct purpose' and to embellish your motivation, when in fact you are just acting according to the same desire of those who are misread as 'the wicked'. Sometimes we just want to get somewhere or get out of somewhere. So the coincidence should not blind one to discover the 'terrible' nature in them, because that nature may be more revealing and keep you in the original route you've intended from the beginning that will not lead to a end of regret.